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And therein lies the solution to getting off this hamster wheel of dating the same people with the same problems: you have to stop hating the absence of the trait you think you desperately need. Firstly, you will not be so triggered by your partner when they fail.Secondly, if starting a new relationship, you will not be attracting people who will have the same old problems.The mind may try to answer the question, but that is not the point of the exercise.We just want to feel the feelings that we’ve been hating on.Relationships can be a treasure trove of self-realization.
First, we have to acknowledge that this is a very common occurrence. I’ve experienced it myself and if you are too, don’t be alarmed because you’re not alone.But, like my friend, I too had a strong intolerance for people who were stuck in their destructive ways.The reason my friend and I were in perpetual Groundhog’s Day with our respective partners was because of the perennially true maxim: .Why don’t I argue about poor money management or addictions or an overreliance on religion or being a workaholic?Because I don’t have strong emotions regarding those things.