18 and 24 year old dating
The sex is incredible but there isn't much substance to our conversations. Then for my bday she planned the entire day and made me dinner. So about 2 months ago I asked her where I stood with her and she said she liked me a lot. I told her I liked her enough that I'd wait for her. She kept saying she was confused and that she cares so much for me but "right now" she can't give me what i'm looking for.
At first we would just see each other about once a week but then it became more frequent during the summer. When we got home she said she is going to be very busy with her job and finishing her masters degree so we would only be able to see each other once a week. That continued until about two weeks ago she told me she cared too much for me to continue because she felt she was in the way of me finding "the one" that I might marry.
By the way , true love can even survive friendship!
Just because she is confused at the moment, i would never lose her true friendship (If she is) for "marriage"!!
Also am I being stupid dating a 24 year old when I'm 44? Different goals, aspirations, ambitions when you are in 20z, and when you are in 40z, Some girls don't like to be tied in marriage, they are overall good buddies. I have always been comfortable with people who are older to me. Don't worry about if she is telling a truth, treat her like your friend, a junior buddy, a cute gf, a growing individual.... She is entitled to make a choice whenever she is prepared, staying her friends would always reassure her without speaking! I am looking for closure and just wondering if I contact and ask questions will she be truthful.
Also some girls or even boys who date with aged people, they usually have a background for why they incline to somebody older. But for my second marriage, i would reconsider age gaps... many of the marriages with huge age gaps have failed in the area where i live.. I'm just confused as to why she said, "she is confused and likes me so much? She has already given you closure, and she was honest with you. You are on two completely different paths and if you truly love her, you will understand that she is not where you are in life and loves you as a friend or an amazing experience thus she is not the "ONE" Why would she say she is confused and cares so much about me?